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You (Yes, YOU) Deserve Rest
Last month I wrote about taking intentional rest over the winter holiday. Which, I’m glad to say, I did. And, for approximately a decade...
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Feb 162 min read
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Reflect, Reset, and Rest
I was looking back through my previous posts and realized I’ve written basically this exact same post , at this exact same time a year...
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Dec 29, 20243 min read
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758 Thats and 258 Sos
I love learning about other people's processes. I love the podcast How I Built This , I love learning about new organizational design...
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Nov 23, 20244 min read
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Look for the Helpers
Here in North Carolina, lots of folks have been using this famous Mister Rogers quote this week: “When I was a boy and I would see scary...
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Oct 6, 20242 min read
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Finding Motivation in the Madness
I don’t know about you, but everything feels a little . . . nutty right now. I posted a silly meme about being exhausted on Instagram...
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Sep 21, 20243 min read
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Frances Mayes on Writing and Relationships
Yesterday I had the pleasure of hearing the great Frances Mayes talk about her most recent novel, A Great Marriage , at my local...
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Aug 18, 20243 min read
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August Is Still Summer
Everyone I know seems to be saying the same thing right now: “Can you believe it’s already August?” Usually followed by something like,...
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Aug 3, 20243 min read
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Knowing When to Begin Again
I have officially been querying my current WIP for a year. Which, on its own, is worth noting; I’m pretty sure my previous forays into...
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Jun 22, 20242 min read
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A Note to the Grads
It’s graduation weekend at the school where I work (also my alma mater), as it is at colleges and universities across the country. It’s...
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May 19, 20244 min read
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On Taking a Rest Day
I’m not good at rest. Not actual rest – I LOVE a good nap, and sleep is quite possibly my most favorite thing – but acknowledging that my...
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Apr 28, 20243 min read
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Why Not Us?
Did you see it? Chances are, if you’re living in North Carolina, you did. That game, that improbable moment, when N.C. State, the team...
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Mar 17, 20243 min read
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Feeling Thankful (Or, How a Car Accident Forced Me to Take a Beat)
I got in an accident this week. Counting the time that my father rear-ended me at a stop sign (and somehow did $800 worth of damage to my...
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Mar 9, 20243 min read
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(Not) Finding Time to Write
I have this vivid memory from when I was a senior in college of telling someone about my post-graduation plans, “What I really want to do...
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Feb 17, 20242 min read
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Don’t Waste the Wait
Patience has never been one of my biggest strengths. One the pro side, this makes me great at decision-making. I have a strong bias to...
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Jan 21, 20243 min read
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Reflections and Intentions
Are you someone who makes New Year’s resolutions? I’m not, and never have been. But I do love goal setting, professionally, and...
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Dec 29, 20233 min read
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On (Not Looking For) Limitations
In the December 2023/January 2024 issue of Vanity Fair, a feature on the director Greta Gerwig (she of Barbie fame, among others) ends...
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Dec 9, 20233 min read
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Finding Gratitude When Things are Hard
It’s Thanksgiving week in the U.S., which means, for many, trips to see family, a big meal, and perhaps conversations about gratitude. I...
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Nov 19, 20233 min read
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On Being a Lifelong Learner
This weekend I attended the North Carolina Writer’s Network fall conference, an annual gathering of writers, agents, editors, and readers...
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Nov 6, 20233 min read
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The Importance of Starter Novels
Like many people who find themselves writing in adulthood, my first attempts at being a writer started when I was a child. It’s hard to...
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Oct 8, 20233 min read
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It's All Data: On Listening to Feedback
In my day job I spend a lot of time talking about feedback: both how to give it and how to seek it out. Feedback is one of the best ways...
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Sep 16, 20233 min read
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